You really don't

think it was gonna be that easy do you? well of course you thought it was that easy but let me lay it out for you so you wouldn't be so confused.

well before i start,there are 2 things i want to say first. the first one is that i apologize for abandoning my blog for a very long time. i know you eager readers want to know what i have so much in my mind but i didn't put it up so that puts your mind in the curious state, which to me is a form of torture. secondly, this post is for all the loyal-type guys ONLY. if you're the playboy,touch-and-go, and/or heartless type,please stop reading now for i have no intention of drawing people of your kind.

ok this post is mainly to put all these loyal guys to a state where it will create some sort of doubt in your head. and needless to say, i don't have to write a lot since i'm good at what i'm doing and i know what i'm doing, and that is all that matters.

i know right now you all would probably think that you can stick to one girl for the rest of your life. you think that there is no one in the world that can replace her. well let me break your spirit. there is always someone better for you out there EVEN if you love your current girlfriend/fiance/wife. note the ALWAYS. whats this? Feek is crazy?no...i'm never crazy.

for you see,like i've mentioned before, when you say "oh, you're good" for example, its the same as saying "oh, you're better compare to ...".get it? good,sad,happy,etc etc is always comparing. you're good compare to whom?to what?

so you see,when you found someone special, you think that "hey she's perfect" BUT COMPARED TO WHO? ok,for the first girl/boy that you say that, you would probably compare to your expectations.but what if it doesn't work out? you will and i bet WILL find someone better COMPARE to your previous one. and what if this doesn't work out as well? you will continue your search to find someone better! but you know damn well that there is no "best".

lets go back to the statement where i said there is always someone better than your current girlfriend/fiance/wife. so if there is better, shouldn't we leave this one and go search for the better one?well its up to you actually. you see guys/girls, its not how you compare the person to others, its how you accept the fact that your partner is ENOUGH for you. enough as in?let your partner be in the middle. not too pretty/handsome,not to smart/stupid, etc.

Q:well what if my girl is the prettiest girl in school?i can't deny that!
A:hey fool!read the statement. there is ALWAYS someone better than your current partner. don't think that she's the prettiest. because trust me, there will be a time when the beauty fades, and all those feelings will disappear.why?because all you think of is that she is the prettiest! if you think that she's the ugliest, well that fastens the process of you leaving her and finding another. BUT if you think that she's somewhere in the middle, you're mindset will automatically say that you can accept her even if she's a bit prettier than what you wanted or a bit uglier that what you imagined. and when that happens, she is just right for you.

so you see boys and girls, we need not to be special in anyways at all for you see, nowadays everyone is "special". tight clothes is considered "special".muslims drinking beer is also considered "special". wake up people. normal is the new thing :)

sorry for the offensive statement. i'm just trying to help you guys/girls untangle the knots in your life strings :)